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Wednesday, 18 December 2013
Tuesday, 17 December 2013
10 Tips on How to be a Successful Husband
10 Tips on How to be a Successful Husband
1.) Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah SAW would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2.) Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasulullah SAW had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.
3.) Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.
4.) If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasulullah SAW used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives Radiallahu Anhunn. It is something that very few muslim men have learnt or practice with their wives.
5.) Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the muslim ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasulullah SAW would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.
6.) Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t be that person; thank her!
7.) Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what makes her happy. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those things in your life.
8.) Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasulullah SAW set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah RA was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
9.) Be humorous and play games with your wife. Make her laugh, have little ‘inside’ jokes and moments with her. Honestly your wifes laughter is one of the best sounds in life. Make her smile keep & her happy. Look at how Rasulullah SAW would race his wife Aisha RA in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?
10.) Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger SAW: “The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.” Try to be the best!
Never forget to make dua to Allah SWT to make your marriage successful. And Allah SWT knows best. :)
Friday, 13 December 2013
3 Day session to Unite the Ummah on platform of Sunnah - 13th, 14th, & 15th December 2013
Our Success is Hidden in Unity
United We Stand Divided We Fall !
A three Day session to Unite the Ummah on platform of Sunnah & to instil in ourselves the greatness & Love of the Companions (May Allah be pleased with Them) of Our Beloved Prophet (Peace & Blessings of Allah Upon Him).
Islam teaches to Love each other, To hate & character assassinate is Un-Islamic.
As in a Garden colorful flowers blossom & enhance the Beauty of Nature, in the same way our Aslaaf have decorated the Shariah in Charming ways, HOW ?
Please attend the program and appreciate the beauty & excellence of Shariah.
DATE: 13th, 14th, & 15th December 2013
Timings : After Maghrib Salah (6:30 PM)
Venue:- Y.M.C.A grounds Agripada, Mumbai 400011
************Eminent Scholars to Address************
1) Shaykh Khalid Saifullah Rahmani Hafizahullah
2) Shaykh Ubaidullah Asadi Hafizahullah
3) Shaykh Mufti Saeed Ahmad Palanpuri Hafizahullah
4) Shaykh Abul Qasim Nomani Hafizahullah
5) Shaykh Rashid Qasmi Hafizahullah
6) Shaykh Yahya Nomani Hafizahullah
***Come One, Come All***
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